In addition, with the continued connection between ex-spouses because of their children, some couples find they still do have feelings for each other after the turmoil from the separation subsides.
If the problems in your marriage are reversible, in that with work you can solve them, it's possible you can reconcile.
" Answer: The question of dating during the divorce process is difficult to answer for several reasons.
The better choice is to abstain from any action that could endanger one spiritually or give the impression to others of a careless attitude toward marriage.The Bible nowhere states that the “guilty” spouse in a divorce is allowed to remarry; therefore, he or she should not be dating.Since the purpose of dating to find a spouse or to seek companionship with the opposite sex, biblically speaking, a married man or woman is not free to date, even if there is a pending divorce.Most people going through a divorce, even when it is not their fault and even when they have biblical reasons, are usually shattered by the circumstances and not in any frame of mind to be “dating.” People don’t usually make good decisions while “on the rebound.” For a still-hurting divorced person or someone in a painful divorce process to be dating is neither wise nor prudent.The abandoned spouse may indeed be lonely, but making clear-headed, godly relationship decisions in such a situation is difficult, if not impossible.
Even the innocent victim of an unwanted divorce is still married until the marriage is legally or formally ended.