My father was angry with me because I had children and he said it was my fault I put myself in that type of position.
My mom couldn't even help me she could barely take care of herself.
I do admit it's an insult, not just to a Narcissist but indeed to anybody.
He said to me this is what happens if you make wrong life decisions and his final responds was "Try to control your emotions".
and i'm emotionally abused by my parents my entire life and it was just recently that i realized that.
I hated my life and I wanted it to end but I had children whom I loved and I couldn't leave them. I tried to get help from my dad but he said THAT I MADE MY BED NOW - lay in it!!
That hurt so much because I thought daddies were there to help when you needed them most.
she is my ex from 1997 where she would be with me for a month then dump me, then a week later take me back then a week later dump me again.
it's hard to say it and feel like I'm really telling the truth, but she's my abuser.
I thought I'd share the signs that I gathered and used to diagnose the problem.