And with that in mind: One of the keys to picking the perfect gift is keep her personality and interests in mind.Some women are far more likely to want something useful than something schmoopy, while others will love you forever if you buy her an Assassin’s Creed Eagle hoodie or a Potat OS.I genuinely loved certain family traditions like the annual gathering of as many friends as possible to take over a local Tex-Mex restaurant for Christmas Eve lunch – before we all got older and had responsibilities that made it impossible to keep it going.No, my biggest issue is the way it gets shoved down one’s throat earlier and earlier every year.Gift giving, whether at Christmas, Valentine’s Day or a birthday, can be fraught with insecurity and peril, especially when you’re at the beginning of a new relationship – or worse, are still in the “are we/aren’t we” stage of dating.It’s a delicate balancing act: if you spend too much, too early in the relationship, you risk coming off as though you’re starting to get clingy and desperate.At the same time however, if you haven’t had the “Defining The Relationship” talk – you’re not exclusive or otherwise a “serious” relationship – then you want something cute and fun that reflects the fact that you’ve been enjoying your time together.Giving something practical like, say, cookware, implies a more committed relationship than you actually have.
especially if you’re not necessarily into or don’t really understand her interests.4 to 6 months, serious relationship: You’re in the “new relationship” stage, which means everything’s likely hearts and cartoon birds and barely being able to keep your hands off one another.This is the honeymoon period – sweet and sappy gifts are going to be the most appreciated.The more you can show that not only do you appreciate their passions – even if you don’t share them – but you care enough to love. Printing a favorite photo on wood, for example, gives it an extra level of texture and artistry that it didn’t have before, turning a couple’s selfie into something special.To give one example: one of my friends effectively won Christmas forever by buying his wife a single chef’s knife. It’s incredibly simple makes you look like the best, most attentive boyfriend/husband/what-have-you in the world. Even when you’ve been with your partner for months or even years, it can be a little daunting to find something that will not only make them smile but will say that you put some thought into this. There are several services online that print photos in many different media, including canvas, aluminum, wood or even on chocolate.
It’s an extension of the Grand Romantic Gesture that looks great in movies but actually freaks people out in real life. Either way: at best it’s going to send very awkward messages. well, it can be the incident that causes your honey to start rethinking how they feel about you.