We were too interested in him, or we weren’t interested enough.
My hope is that, in reading these, you’ll get a little introspective, and maybe come up with your own tips and tricks. Luckily, I eventually realized that there's no "right" way to date, and that I need to find happiness within myself, no partner needed.
By the time your date comes around, she’ll already have lost interest or have found someone more attentive.
If you really are going away, wait until you get back to ask her out.
It’s Not You is where I write to calm the voices in my head — and hear from all of you.
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