The same technique should be employed on the phone, email or chat.
The more you exude an independent and confident life, the more someone will want to spend time getting to know you.
It's like you're interviewing for a job, and the employer is hiring only one candidate.We've all known people who have many offers to date, go to parties and attend events. It's more attractive to win over the person who is self-sufficient and happy than to settle down with the person who is needy and always willing to give.Many people have built their lives on pleasing others.Finding dates is now easier, and thus, dating has become a more transactional experience.If you don't hit it off on the first date, your date will probably move on and find someone else.
If you think job interviews are tricky, dating is much trickier.