I've more or less given up on the dating thing, maybe one can find friends.
I don't know what I do wrong, or if it's even something that I'm consciously doing or if I'm just not aware of or what, but the longest relationship I've had with a girl...... That's why I usually tell the people to tell me straight foward what I'm doing wrong or what image am I projecting.She has lost everything she had a couple of times now, and been taken for large amounts of money by people who saw her as someone easily manipulated because of her need for love and acceptance. I really doubt a book is going to help with something like dating. I've bought several books (for normals) over the years, and nothing in them really seems to be anything I can work with.So much of dating seems to be involved with non-verbal signals.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I notice when I joke around with him and urge him to leave his shell he becomes more social, there's always the inward struggle, you must surround yourself with people who bring the best in you out in the open. I would guess my peers started dating at about age 15, which is 32 years ago.Do any men or women on this site have Asperger's Syndrome and have difficulty with relationships and/or sex? I have Asperger's Syndrome and I have never had a girlfriend before and I have tried everything even internet dating. I've probably had 15-25 first dates, less than 10 second dates and 1 LTR.